Find a couple of suitable time-out spots that works well for you and your child, both at home and when you are out.
can be short or long, designed as a punishment or just a distracting break from the bad
but one thing a time-out spot has to be, is NO FUN!
Sending your child their room, in todays day and age, is no longer a solution as there rooms are packed with toys and electronic gadgets, not the best option.
Try one of these not-so-hot-spots next time your child needs a moment alone:
The time-out chair
Put a chair in a very boring corner of the room and make this your childs time-out area. If you cannot find a chair that says 'time-out chair', you can either
paint this on any chair or stick the name on with stickers.
Stand your child in a corner, facing in, is a good alternative to sitting in a corner. There is no other place this boring.
On the floor
This is a good place for a smaller child, they can drop where they are and have an immediate time-out. Or if you want to make things a little more
structured, you can have a specific pillow or rug as a spot.
If a sibling squabble is being punished, your first reaction would be to separate them - but making them endure time-out side-by-side may be a more
By your side
Instead of letting your child do the punishment on their own, keep them by your side and let them do a chore with you or some dirty work, that you know
they don't enjoy.
A hard hug can serve as a quick time-out, especially if you are away from home. Wrap your arms around your child, hold on tight and count slowly to twenty.
The most convenient spot
When you are out or away from home, find a bench, a pavement or a quiet area and take your child there for a quick time-out. No fun, No conversation and No
action until the time is served.
On your lap
This is a variation of the hug. You can put a smaller child on your lap, either facing you or facing away from you. Put your arms around your child,
hold them tightly and count the time-out.
For a child that hates eye contact, twenty seconds of forced eye contact can much more effective than any other time-out.
Instead of putting your child on a time-out spot, give them time-out from the electronic devices that they enjoy. This is a very effective method
for older children. Remove items from your child such as, TV remotes, video game controls, computer mice, cell phones, ipods or favourite DVD's and CD's.
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